So the Household blog has now been started. It is My intention for all members and potential members of the Household to post to this blog, which may take the form of copying posts from each boi's personal blogs to here.
Now, there are several bois that make up the Household. The newest addition, the pup heartfang, was taken in ownership on 13.04.2007, and here he is working on his own blog.
Before starting this blog, I have decided to close My blog "Random Thoughts" as a bdsm blog, and make MJJ the bdsm record.
Now, there are several bois that make up the Household. The newest addition, the pup heartfang, was taken in ownership on 13.04.2007, and here he is working on his own blog.
Before starting this blog, I have decided to close My blog "Random Thoughts" as a bdsm blog, and make MJJ the bdsm record.
Here is all the kink material from RT in chronological order:
13 MARCH, 2007
the new boi
Tonight I met the new slave.
He has registered as SLRN-858-043-140. He goes by the name of alex, but I have decided to call him 140. I have had him write a blog, by the same name. He is married, to a woman. So far he has behaved well, and I want him to use the blog as a relief valve and also as a means of free expression.
The discussion on msn went well, and I am hopeful that we will meet in mid-April, after G returns. He is aware that I am interested in control, and one of the features we touched on was chastity. I have had a boi in chastity before, but he was not as attractive to Me as he could have been, so to the best of My knowledge he is still locked up, but I very much doubt that!
I was pleasantly surprised by 140's first blog - it was very much a breath of fresh air for him. I felt as if he had finally found the opportunity to express the desires of his slaveheart, so he shall, I expect, be a good subject for training.
I am looking forward to seeing how this develops, and specifically, how the boi does with the blog. He has been instructed to post at least once a week, and I have corrected the layout of the page to something a bit more amenable to the reader. So we'll see how it goes.
14 MARCH, 2007
A Promising Evening for Stables
A fruitful night: I had a good discussion with 140, and he has accepted My offer of consideration for ownership, which I thought he would. I learned a little more about him, and I am quite happy with his levels of respect and devotion. I have had to think of a suitable way - apart from him blogging - for him to be aware of his submission given that we are some 90 miles apart. Obviously, tagging or tattooing or having him not wear underwear is not going to work because of his domestic situation. So I have decided to have his right nipple pierced. I intend taking ownership for his first contract on his birthday, so I will have it done as a birthday gift. What he has to do now is to convince his wife.
A tangible mark of submission is a good thing for the submissive. In 140's case, he will not only be reminded of his Owner while it heals (and it takes forever to heal), but he will also feel it in place. I think it is better than the ID tags, or the chain collar, or similar - mainly because it is anonymous to the beholder. It also has the added benefit of being right in the midst of his most intimate connubial moments; a reminder that although he has familial responsibilities, he is My owned property. And I like that idea!
I am also speaking with two other potential slaves, one in Newcastle, and one in Wigan. I have already had the Newcastle boi ( a complete novice) register, and if he has the cojones to continue, he will be known as 932-413-036, or 036 for short. I rarely use their Sunday names. He is 24, of just the right height, and may make the grade, although there is still that element of doubt. Only time will tell.
The second potential slave is more committed. He is 26, tall and stocky, cut, and interested in sex, cbt and other activities. I have made My requirements known, and he seems to want to submit to them. He is quite articulate and has also had his own share of being run around by the wannabe brigade. So we shall see.
And to top it all (no pun intended), there is the dom partner of a couple in Cleveleys who wants to be dominated, but I am not too sure about him yet. I do not think I am going to find him physically attractive, but he is from Cape Town originally, he is Dominant, he is close by; so we have some things in common and it may well lead to a friendship - who knows?
The only fly in the ointment is the sub matt. I was hoping he'd be online to chat - I want to use him soon, and we need to talk about his first session.
A good night, all in all. Most promising.
17 MARCH, 2007
Paradigm shift
And so life continues. There are now several slaves who are interested in their interviews, 140 and 283 being the most promising. The latest, 283, has been chatting for a while, and now I have decided to make all the slaves follow the same path: they register and I use their slave number instead of their names. I was inspired bywww.wiltshiretops.com and now use numbers. The bois respond well, because it reinforces their submission. So that will be the new paradigm for them.
I have decided to start using a local slave for My pleasure, and have responded to its requests to be noticed. it is serving as a painslave to a Master in Preston, but I think it could be used here as well. it is quite experienced, so initial training should not be a problem, and it might be used to manage the others as they are trained, as an alpha. We shall see.
I had the boi in Wigan perform on camera last night, and he looks a little too chubby for My liking. Nothing that a little weight loss training can't overcome. I am quite happy that there now seems to be a cadre of more serious material coming to My attention, because I was growing tired of the wannabe slaves.
I notice that the more serious material is older, and this - although not quite fantasy made real - is probably better because they have realised their station in life and want to submit. I have taken a 19 year old from Cardiff under consideration, but I am not yet sure how it is going to work. That is the slave 940. Also on the horizon is a boi from Leicester, 811, a 27 year old.
I have also instructed the sub matt to be online tonight, because I want to further this project. My cage needs to be used, so he will be a perfect test case. I am a little snookered at the moment with the lodger, but I will have the house to Myself once he leaves, so the dungeon can be reconstructed. This time I will use slave labour to completely redecorate and make it much more user-friendly. Also, the cell under the stairs needs to become a reality.
So many projects, so little time.
19 MARCH, 2007
The Contract
Consensual Contract of Voluntary Enslavement made between the Master Jonathan and the slave __________________ this ___ day of ________________ in the year 20__.
THIS CONTRACT is a secure and binding agreement which defines in specific terms the relationship and interaction between the two consenting adults named above, hereinafter referred to as the Master and the slave.
This agreement is legal and binding. This agreement has been entered into voluntarily, but cannot be broken except under the conditions stated below, after which certain precautions shall be taken to protect those involved. (See section 7.0.0).
This Contract shall last for a fixed period of __________ days, commencing from the date of signing below, and terminating at twelve noon on the final day. It may be renewed by the mutual written agreement of both parties on the pages provided below.
1.0.0 The slave's Role
The slave agrees to submit completely to his Master in all ways. There are no boundaries of place, time, or situation in which the slave may wilfully refuse to obey the directive of the Master without risking punishment, except in situations where the slave's veto (see section 1.0.1) applies.
The slave also agrees that, once entered into this Contract, his body belongs to the Master, to be used as the Master sees fit, within the guidelines defined herein.
All the slave's possessions likewise belong to the Master, including all assets, finances, and material goods, to do with as He sees fit for the duration of this Contract.
The slave agrees that he may be sent out to work in order to offset the Master’s costs in keeping the slave in food and lodgings; and that the Master is entitled to all of the slave’s earnings given that the slave and his earnings are the property of the Master.
The slave agrees to please his Master to the best of his ability, and he acknowledges that he now exists solely for the pleasure of the Master.
The slave agrees that he will maintain at all times a pleasant disposition in order to please his Master.
1.0.1 The slave's Veto
The slave holds the right of veto over any command given by the Master, at which time he may rightfully refuse to obey that command, but only as stated below.
This power may only be invoked under the following circumstances, or where it has been previously agreed to by both Master and slave, and set out in the Exceptions Page below:
Where the command conflicts with any existing laws, and causing the slave to obey may lead to fines, arrest, or the prosecution of the slave.
Where the command may cause extreme damage to slave's life and his general sense of wellbeing, such as causing him to lose his job, causing family stress, and similar extreme situations.
Where the command may cause permanent bodily harm (see 4.0.0) to the slave.
2.0.0 The Master's Role
The Master accepts the responsibility for the slave's body and worldly possessions, to do with as He sees fit, for the duration of and under the provisions agreed to in this Contract.
The Master agrees to care for the slave, to provide food and shelter for the slave, to arrange for the safety and well-being of the slave for as long as He owns the slave.
The Master agrees to care for the assets of the slave, but reserves the right to make such deductions that are deemed reasonable to offset His costs for the board and lodging and training of the slave.
The Master also accepts the responsibility to treat the slave properly, to train the slave, to punish the slave, to care for the slave, and use the slave as He sees fit.
3.0.0 Punishment
The slave agrees to accept any punishment the Master decides to inflict, whether earned or not, and to express his gratitude for the corrective action applied by the Master.
3.0.1 Rules of Punishment
Punishment of the slave is subject to these rules designed to protect the slave from intentional abuse or permanent bodily harm (see 4.0.0). Any punishment must not deliberately incur the slave’s permanent bodily harm, or any of the following:
Blood may not be drawn at any time. Punishment must stop immediately if blood is drawn
Burning the body
Asphyxia
Drastic loss of circulation
Causing internal bleeding
Loss of consciousness
Withholding of any necessary materials necessary to sustain life, such as food, water, oxygen or sunlight for extended periods of time
4.0.0 Permanent Bodily Harm
Since the body of the slave belongs to the Master, it is the Master's responsibility to protect that body from permanent bodily harm.
Should the slave ever come to permanent bodily harm during the course of punishment or in any other slavery-related activity, whether by intention or accident, it will be grounds for immediate termination of this Contract, should the slave so desire.
Permanent bodily harm shall be considered to be:
Death
Any damage that involves loss of mobility or function, including broken bones.
Any permanent marks on the skin, including scars, burns, or tattoos, unless accepted by the slave.
Any loss of hair, unless accepted by the slave.
Any piercing of the flesh which leaves a permanent hole, unless accepted by the slave.
Any diseases that could result in any of the above results, including sexually transmitted diseases.
5.0.0 Others
The slave may not seek any other Master or lover or relate to others in any sexual or submissive way without the Master's express permission. To do so will be considered a breach of contract, and will result in extreme punishment and/or termination of this Contract, at the Master’s discretion.
The Master may accept other slaves or lovers, but must consider the slave's emotional response to such actions and act accordingly.
The Master may give the slave to other Masters, provided that the rules of this Contract are upheld. In such a situation, the Master will inform the new Master of the provisions stated herein, and any breach by the new Master will be considered a breach by the Master as well, subject to all rules stated in this Contract.
6.0.0 Secrecy
All physical evidence of the slavery will be kept in total secrecy, except where both Master and slave agree otherwise.
Any violation of this clause shall be a valid cause to terminate this Contract, should the injured party wish it. The materials and physical evidence shall be kept under lock and key in a place acceptable to both parties.
7.0.0 Alteration of Contract
This contract may not be altered, except when both Master and slave agree. If the contract is altered, the new contract shall be printed and signed, and then the old contract must be destroyed.
8.0.0 Termination of Contract
This contract may be terminated at any time by the Master, but never by the slave, except under the specific conditions listed above.
Upon termination, all physical evidence of the slavery of the slave, including this signed Contract or any signed copies, will be destroyed, and all materials, earnings and/or belongings pertaining to this enslavement shall belong solely to the Master, to be shared or kept as He sees fit.
The slave, owning nothing and having agreed to give up all his worldly possessions and his body to the Master, shall once again own his own body but nothing else, unless the Master decides otherwise.
EXCEPTIONS PAGE
The following specific items shall be deemed to be exceptions from the general Agreement above, and both Master and slave agree that:
9.0.0 The slave's Signature
i have read and fully understand this Contract and its Exceptions in its entirety.
i agree to give everything i own to my Master, and further accept His claim of ownership over my physical body.
i understand that i will be commanded and trained and cared for and punished as His slave, and i promise to be true and faithful and to fulfil the pleasures and desires of my Master to the best of my abilities and in good humour.
i understand that i cannot withdraw from this contract for the duration of its period of validity, except as stated and agreed to above.
Full Name of slave:____________________________________________________
Signature:______________________________ Date:______________________
9.0.1 Master's Signature
I have read and fully understand this contract in its entirety. I agree to accept this slave as my property, body and possessions, and to care for him to the best of my ability.
I shall provide for his security and well-being and command him, train him, and punish him as a slave.
I understand the responsibility implicit in this arrangement, and agree that no harm shall come to the slave as long as he is Mine.
I further understand that I can withdraw from this contract at any time.
Full Name of Master__________________________________________________
Signature:______________________________ Date:______________________
RENEWAL OF CONTRACT PAGE
First Renewal:
On this day, ________________________________________ both Master and slave have agreed to extend the Contract of Consensual and Voluntary Enslavement for ____________ days, subject to the following additional conditions listed below. The termination date will now be twelve noon on __________________________________________.
Addtional Conditions:
Full Name of slave:____________________________________________________
Signature:______________________________ Date:______________________
Full Name of Master__________________________________________________
Signature:______________________________ Date:______________________
Second Renewal:
On this day, ________________________________________ both Master and slave have agreed to extend the Contract of Consensual and Voluntary Enslavement for ____________ days, subject to the following additional conditions listed below. The termination date will now be twelve noon on __________________________________________.
Addtional Conditions:
Full Name of slave:____________________________________________________
Signature:______________________________ Date:______________________
Full Name of Master__________________________________________________
Signature:______________________________ Date:______________________
20 MARCH, 2007
Vows of Poverty, Chastity, and Obedience
I was reading on Jack Rinella's website last night his thoughts on Mastery - of course slavery. He was saying that he thought that the slave has no rights whatsoever in this authoritarian lifestyle, and although I agree with much of what he says, I think that what makes the relationship is the interplay between the two parties. The Master and slave relationship can be likened to that of the novice in the monastery, where the ideals of poverty, chastity and obedience are practised for the greater glory of god and the edification of the monk.
Comparing the monk to the slave, both serve their Master with equal humility and devotion. Each exists solely to please his Master and Masters, like the god of the monks, must be sure to treat their slaves as well and with humanity, compassion and kindness.
Yesterday I posted My take on a slave contract which I'd found on the web somewhere some time ago. I do believe that yes, the slave must have some opt-outs, generally relating to his safety. I think that the sensible and true Master must be aware of the welfare of the slave, even to the point of placing the slave's assets into a trust fund or some interest-bearing account (the Premium Bonds would be nice, especially if the slave wins) because the slave has placed its trust in the Master.
Like monks, I do not think that full-time slaves should have access to a bank account. I think it is right and proper that the Master owns and manages these assets for the duration of the contract very much in the same way that the Superior manages the assets of the monastery - always having the best interests of his slave at heart. Control of the wealth in a relationship is to control the relationship, and in the Master/slave relationship it makes the slavery tangible. Masters should allow slaves pocket-money to take care of the mundane expenses that occur in everyone's daily life, especially if the slave is being sent out to work for its keep.
I am firmly of the opinion that slaves need to be kept occupied, and having the slave toiling in the vanilla environment at its occupaion is very good for both parties - it provides the Master with additional income to fund the expenditure of keeping a slave, and it provides the slave with an "ordinary" life which it can leave to return to the safety and security of the Household. It also ensures that the slave is kept on its toes because it has to care for its Master as well as earn its keep, so it is better able to appreciate the kindnesses of the Master when he so chooses. A self-sufficient slave is a happy slave, but the earnings of the slave are the earnings of the Master, and in so doing the slave practises the poverty that is so prized by the Religious.
In much the same way as the Trappists, for example, a slave must be denied the use of its own communications because its independent contact with the larger world outside the Household can undermine the bonds of ownership and devotion to the cause. slaves' freedom of communication should be carefully monitored and controlled by the Master until a sufficient level of trust has been built up between the two at which point the slave ought to be trusted to remain true to its chosen path. It is right that slaves contact their family and friends, but it is wrong for them to seek an alternative social life outside the Household, except with the permission of the Master. Observing a vow of silence is as effective as practising chastity in that it teaches slaves the value of silence and equally the value of speech.
slaves also make the decision to remain in chastity when agreeing to a contract with a Master - after all, his holes, cock and balls no longer belong to him but to his Owner in the same way that the monk sacrifices the pleasures of the flesh to be closer to his god. The slave must therefore forgo any unauthorised stimulation of the sexual organs completely. It is for this reason that I think a slave should be kept in chastity at all times when not in use. It makes him appreciate and perform very well during those intimate moments serving his Master sexually - whether or not he is permitted to orgasm.
Now there are those who might balk at the prospect of giving up so much personal freedom in this day and age, but for a realistic experience of slavery there is no other option. I have drawn parallels with the good brothers who do the same in the ecclesiastic environment, for as shown, just as they take vows of poverty, obedience and chastity, so too does the full-time slave when it agrees to serve its Master.
Such vows, unlike the monk, tend to last for a limited time only so they are not nearly as onerous. I would argue that they are equally spiritually uplifting, though.
25 MARCH, 2007
Getting It Right
If there is one thing - among the many! - that irritates Me, it is the misspelling of My name. A work colleague, also a Jonathan with an "a", has lived with a wrongly spelt name-board on his door for the past eight years. He has suddenly become a JonathOn instead of aJonathAn. He has said that he has given up complaining, but knowing him, I don't think that it irritates him any more.
He is an individual who routinely makes mistakes with the names of people that we work with - and quite a lot of people pass through our system annually. I always take great pains at correcting him, because I think that to get a person's name wrong is a sign of gross disrespect. I have to work with numbers of foreign people whose names are not at all like ours, and I think that it sends a positive message when they see that you have taken the time and effort to learn their names, no matter how fleeting the contact might be in the greater scheme of things.
And so it is with slaves. The slave must learn its Master's name, and if it means that a process of learning needs to be followed, then so be it. I make a point of renaming My slaves using their slave Register Number, mainly because it gives them a focus in the world away from their everyday interaction with colleagues, friends and family. This makes the time spent in service special, and it allows the slave to become the object of service without having to worry about what other people think because other people don't know it as 123 or whatever the boi's number is. So renaming is a liberating experience, albeit a subjugated one.
A curious thing happened last night - I took under consideration two new bois, (unusually) one in his forties, and one in his thirties. Thethirty-something and I had been speaking for a while, and he had been avoiding being registered and giving Me his number. As is evident from My writings so far, I cannot continue with the process of training until the slave is numbered and newly renamed, so I essentially ignored him. Last night he registered, and he is now slave 307. The forty-something approached Me for the first time last night, and so the process began.
I was dealing with both simultaneously and found it interesting to compare each boi's reaction to the instructions. They eventually did what was required, and the forty-something became slave 207. A nice coincidence, I thought.
So I found out if they wanted to, then allowed them to see each other's blog. The reaction was interesting in that it mirrored My views of each boi's blog. There was an element of competition that reared its head, and I wonder whether it should be encouraged.
I am quite pleased with the way things are going in respect of the Stable. So far with this lot, it is all head-stuff until the lodger moves out and I have My dungeon back. As it is, I have been adding to My stock of instruments, so I want the space for a play space. I now haveelectro, as well as a cage for incarceration, and want to construct a small pyramidal cage for the lounge, so I now need the house for Myself. In addition to this, the regular subs have not been by in a while, so I want to be using them as well.
At the present moment, I have ten slaves under consideration: 036, 140, 207, 283, 307, 436, 697, 723, 940, and 971. I have a boi who just wants to be incarcerated - 198. I have used, and want to continue using, the boi 919. And then there is the sub ross and the sub matt. So all things considered, there is a good stock to work with.
But some need to learn respect and to spell My name correctly.
30 APRIL, 2008
The Routine of My slave
I have been giving much thought to how I want My slave to occupy his day of late. First and foremost, My pleasure is the lodestone about which the boi should centre his existence because without Me, he is nothing.
So, here is a rough outline of how My boi will spend a weekday:
0530-0715 - get out of bed, go downstairs, feed cats, tidy up downstairs according to housecleaning roster, prepare and bring Me My coffee, iron My shirt, prepare My breakfast, quick shower.
0715 - be standing at the table, ready to serve Me breakfast.
0745 - have completed the washing up, present himself for approval, fully clothed to My satisfaction.
0800 - 1700 work at his day job.
1215 - call Me to see what I require to be prepared for tea.
1730 - have returned, removed clothing, be in the process of cooking tea.
1830 - have tea on table, wait at table.
1900 - eat, clear up dishes.
1930 - 2000 housecleaning duties according to roster
2000 - 2100 slave journal
2100 - late: amuse Me sexually or otherwise as directed.
There is an element of routine that needs to be built into the life of the boi. Of course, where there are pre-existing arrangements, eg I am working late, the timetable will vary. At the moment, the slave will be required to accompany Me on Tuesday nights to the yacht club, on Wednesdays to the orchestra, and on Fridays to Trades Bar or similar.
Of importance is the slave journal - it is a requirement that the slave spends an hour in reflection daily, and that he keeps a record of this reflection.
Weekends will tend to be more varied, and they allow for the possibility of more varied manual labour tasks around the house on and on the boat. Part of the slave's duties will be to assist as required in the training of new bois, or preparing for sessions with the odd encounter.
In order to play a full part in My life, the boi is going to have to hold a valid driving licence, be articulate and presentable, and also be My shadow when he is not working at his day job.
Sounds like a great career!
So, here is a rough outline of how My boi will spend a weekday:
0530-0715 - get out of bed, go downstairs, feed cats, tidy up downstairs according to housecleaning roster, prepare and bring Me My coffee, iron My shirt, prepare My breakfast, quick shower.
0715 - be standing at the table, ready to serve Me breakfast.
0745 - have completed the washing up, present himself for approval, fully clothed to My satisfaction.
0800 - 1700 work at his day job.
1215 - call Me to see what I require to be prepared for tea.
1730 - have returned, removed clothing, be in the process of cooking tea.
1830 - have tea on table, wait at table.
1900 - eat, clear up dishes.
1930 - 2000 housecleaning duties according to roster
2000 - 2100 slave journal
2100 - late: amuse Me sexually or otherwise as directed.
There is an element of routine that needs to be built into the life of the boi. Of course, where there are pre-existing arrangements, eg I am working late, the timetable will vary. At the moment, the slave will be required to accompany Me on Tuesday nights to the yacht club, on Wednesdays to the orchestra, and on Fridays to Trades Bar or similar.
Of importance is the slave journal - it is a requirement that the slave spends an hour in reflection daily, and that he keeps a record of this reflection.
Weekends will tend to be more varied, and they allow for the possibility of more varied manual labour tasks around the house on and on the boat. Part of the slave's duties will be to assist as required in the training of new bois, or preparing for sessions with the odd encounter.
In order to play a full part in My life, the boi is going to have to hold a valid driving licence, be articulate and presentable, and also be My shadow when he is not working at his day job.
Sounds like a great career!
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