This update has been a long time coming. I have had several requests for an update recently, so this is especially for slave perrito35's master so that his boi can follow his instruction.
Where to start? A good question.
Sexually, I have been quite active, and life with the puppy archie has been great. he has been visiting on Sundays and has turned into a great puppy and a good boi to use. We have experimented with rope, and I have very much enjoyed that. We had a session with another boi of whom I am very fond, a boi called seaotter, and that was a special treat for the pup. Things didn't go quite as planned, but it was pleasant, nonetheless.
I also made an opportunity for him to visit a local master to experience sounding. he had a good session with this master, and has been told he'll be allowed to visit again. he enjoyed the sounding, and is keen to try that again.
archie has been trained to be naked whenever I want him to be, which I have blogged about in the past. Usually, the easiest place for him to be naked and to feel exposed in public is in the car, and although it took some getting used to, a few weeks ago I arranged a visit to a master I am mentoring who had a slave over for the weekend. This particular slave is, I think, still very much in the fantasy stage of his involvement with bdsm and needs to surrender to develop more fully. archie was told to undress on arrival, and because there were two new faces, had become a little shy. I helped with his shyness, and soon he was led out of the changing room and took his rightful place at My feet and was able to contribute to the conversation, being mainly about his experience of being dominated for the benefit of the other master. he soon acclimatised (yes, for some it is not easy being unclothed in the presence of three clothed males, but when you are satisfying your Master's wishes, it becomes easy) so that when I took him into the bedroom to show some bondage, he was completely at ease. his reward was his Master's cum, a little while later. I let him cum too, so it was a pleasant way to spend an otherwise miserable day, before rejoining the other two.
I am still looking for a fulltime slave.
I have spoken with quite a few people on various sites, the most prominent to date being Irishsubboy, who accepted a number to become 634. Sadly, he has had to go abroad to enhance his career, and although we spent most of the runup to xmas chatting and exploring chastity and cum control, his having to move has effectively snookered the discussion for now. During the time he was under consideration he learned much and has the makings of a good boi to a master. he is new to bdsm, but knows that he needs an authoritarian relationship so it is just a matter of time for him. Whether he finds fulfilment with Me or another does not matter - either way, he is a born slave who needs domination and control, and I would very much like to own him.
I have re-established a connection with a boi called subbitch24 over the last month or so, and am busy getting to know him a lot better. he is open to an authoritarian relationship, and is just the sort of boi I am looking for. The discussions continue.
And most recently, a boi called dogfilth. he wants an extreme master, but as yet we have not quite defined what that means to him.
So there, in the last two paragraphs, is the diverse polarity of My own involvement with bdsm exposed. In the case of the first boi, I will be more caring and affectionate (but of course firm and demanding :) ), whereas in the case of the second, much more dominant and controlling. And I like to vary between those two degrees of control. I think a master should have several slaves so that he can enjoy the shades of control that make up his need to dominate.
The final bit of news is that I have now let My house in Fleetwood and moved out of it. This makes play difficult, but not too much so. The boat is not ideal for play, but with some modifications it could be. I suspect that future play will involve hotel rooms for a while, Premier Inns and Travelodge spring to mind. Either that, or I will have to visit.
Happy new year, and more blogs will follow.
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