Monday 3 September 2012

The Hundredth Post

Well, we've been here before!

slave 235 wants to hold off until later, until I am more settled.  This all came as a complete surprise, and I was a little bit taken aback; as ever, I thought things were going swimmingly.  So we will reassess later on, perhaps early in the new year.

And on the rebound, discussions started with another boi, 281, and they seem to have fizzled out as well, but only time will tell.

Work started again, so I am on the boat in Liverpool; today was My first day back, and so far it has been good.

Both these bois were in their early 30s (just, in the case of 281 - who turned thirty yesterday).  Perhaps I should be looking for an older slave?

I'd rather hoped that the hundredth post might have been a little more positive, but such is life, so stone-strewn is the path!

Friday 17 August 2012

The Padlock is Engraved and Ready

Today I collected the padlock from the engraver.  I took the opportunity to engrave 628's padlock as well, so that his has also now been done.  I don't have him use the padlock much - but having needed it the night we went looking for the dungeon party, I realised that it was still outstanding.  I usually have him wear a puppy collar not the chain collar, but it is a very useful sign that he's owned at such dos.

Heaven knows what the engraver (an old man, in his late seventies) must think.  

I have prepared 235's for his collaring on Saturday next, and so, like the others, I'll lead him into the workshop, measure and cut a length of stainless steel chain to fit around his neck, and enclose it with his own padlock.  Before he leaves, I shall give him a vanilla collar to wear, similar to 628 and 589, so that he remains collared in York.  he is under strict instructions to leave it on at all times, and never to remove it.  Only I have that right.

And so his formal training will begin.  We are both looking forward to it.

Wednesday 15 August 2012

More Progress is Made with 235


Today the discussions continued between My new slave and I.  Neither of us could have accomplished much in the way of work given the almost constant to-ing and fro-ing of text messages, but progress was made in several key areas.  I am now able to monitor his movements on Google Latitude, and also a common calendar was set up, so I also know what he should be doing at any time and conversely, he knows My movements and is able to plan for them as required.


Also, he has invested in and set up a webcam as instructed, and so Master and slave are now able to communicate by Skype , which makes a significant difference to our interaction.  The lack of sound from his microphone still needs to be addressed, and that will happen in due course.  The installation of Teamviewer was also necessary in order to try and sort out the microphone settings, so that was another item that needed doing, done.  he is running Windows XP on his PC which is a little slow I noticed, but I think he is simply going to have to save for a Mac, which will make his technologically-challenged life a little easier.



I have also made a point of watching him masturbate, because I think it is important that a Master knows how a slave handles himself, so that if I want to make him cum, I know how he is best likely to cum in the most efficient manner.  This is the video that was captured off Skype, so I thought I'd share it with the readers of the blog.

I don't like to see bois wasting cum, so he was instructed to make sure that he consumed it - this is going to be normal practice for him.

Modifications were also discussed and agreed today, and as time progresses these will be put in place.  The padlock for his chain collar is being engraved with the number 235, to  be ready for his collaring when he visits towards the end of the month.

All in all, it was a most productive day from both the slave-owner's and the slave's points of view, but not, I fear, from the employer's.

I am very pleased with his behaviour so far - keep it up, 235!

Tuesday 14 August 2012

To York, and Beyond!

This afternoon found Me catching the 1435 from Poulton-Le-Fylde, bound for York.  I had never been there before, but I'd heard great things about that city.  I am doubly lucky that My slave is an historian and as such is professionally acquainted with York, so I was going to have a more intimate glimpse of it than any casual visitor.

The journey was long, about 2h30m, and although it was a beautiful afternoon and I had the benefit both of Vivaldi in My ears and the slave at My touch, towards the end it began to drag a bit.  In hindsight, this was probably because I was uncertain if he'd be there, waiting for Me as I expected.  I have experienced so many time-wasters over the years that this was very much an option.  I needn't have worried.  he was there.  I know he felt the same, because a few short minutes away from arriving I received a text message asking if I'd just walked past him!  Of course I was quick to reassure, and a short while later arrived in York.

I was the last passenger off the train - mainly because I'd dropped the ticket on the floor of the carriage and as I was alighting onto the platform, suddenly realised that it was not in My pocket.  The dishy conductor reopened the door, and I found it on the floor, near where I'd been sitting.  I had a brief view of My boi on the other side of the barrier from the end carriage, so I knew he was there, and that gave Me much pleasure - knowing that he was genuine.  This is the first time I have travelled to meet a boi, usually it is the other way round, but as I was on leave and our conversations so fruitful, I decided to make sure I did not lose this one through endless chatting - and work, though still far away in the future, looms nevertheless and so I decided to make hay while the sun did its thing and shone brightly.

I showed the guards the newly-rescued ticket, and went up to meet 235.  I'd given some thought as to how I would greet him and had decided on a firm handshake, which is what he got.  We moved away, up the stairs, I ruffled his hair affectionately, and soon he was  making polite conversation about the train trip and telling Me about the city.  I motioned us towards a bench at the bus station, because I wanted to remove My coat - it was quite warm - and also to make space in the knapsack, so I gave him the bread I'd baked for him that morning and replaced it with the windbreaker.  he had also read the same weather report as I, for he had also come prepared, so it was good to gather our gear, take a breath, and continue.

In order to smooth our meeting and calm any anxieties he might have had about physically meeting, I'd asked him to make contact with 457 (whose blog he'd read and enjoyed very much, and had been quite impressed by) in Australia via recon, so that he could learn a little about Me and also know that I was not a crazy nutter.  he did as I'd asked, and reported back positively, so that is another connection he as made.  I have told both the pup and him about each other, but they have not had permission to talk to each other yet.

My first impressions were that he was exactly what I'd expected him to be.  This is not as mundane a statement as it might seem, because the last person I'd met off a website (Grindr, actually) did not look like his picture at all, so this really did make online gay dating history!   Not only did he look like I expected, but he also measured up to My expectations as a slave.  he is everything I want in a boi, barring a few necessary modifications and refinements, which we have already discussed, and regular readers will be aware of My preferences.

I was immediately struck by his respectful attitude, and realised that this was a slave that needs a Master to guide, help, protect, nurture and develop.  I steered him towards a pub, and gave him the opportunity to be of service and arrange the drinks - I allowed him to choose a drink of his own, while I had a refreshing Aspwhateveritis cider, which went down like a dream after that long train ride.

As we spoke, it became clear to Me that following My instincts had been the right course of action to take.  On the train I had to keep reminding Myself to go slowly, to allow things to develop, and the more we talked, the more right I felt about owning him, so much so that I declared My intentions quite plainly.  I explained to him that I did not want him to be snatched away from Me, and so I was staking My claim then and there.  he agreed.

he told Me that he was not going anywhere, and that there was all the time in the world to sort these things out, which was oil on troubled water.  The discussion ranged over many subjects after those important bits had been blurted out, and before long I had him ring the restaurant to tell them that we were going to be about ten minutes late.  As we still had most of the pint to go, leaving was out of the question!  We were getting on like the proverbial house and flame.

I had put the finding of the restaurant and taking care of the booking squarely on his shoulders, and he did not disappoint: it was well chosen, a nice Italian, and not a chain.  I decided on olives and bread to start, with us sharing calamari and antipasti.  For mains, I ordered spaghetti amatriciana (yes, I know it should go with rigatoni or penne, but I like spaghetti - or better still, linguine) which they very kindly made up for us as it was not a standard menu item.  Bacon is not one of the boi's favourite things, but as I had avoided ordering the bruschetta, he had to make do with the bacon - and I did not hear him complain, rather the contrary.  We enjoyed a bottle of their house red (a whole litre for £15, a merlot, so that was nice) and then finished with ice cream.  So the meal was a success, and coming after breaking My fast with G that morning, it was the second thing I'd eaten all day - apart from a punnet of strawberries in the train.

The conversation did not ebb and flow.  It flowed and flowed and flowed.  There were funny bits, sad bits, and serious bits.  Bits about the past, bits about the future.  Confidential bits, Master and slave bits.   I was very happy with the meal and the discussion surrounding it.  

Time was flying too quickly, so I delayed My departure by an hour, catching the 2114 to Manchester Picadilly.  Only just catching it, I must stress.  We very nearly missed it, which would have been a bit of a disaster because it was the last train!

The return journey was occupied sending and answering text messages until each others' batteries died.

he has been given several instructions, one of which is to start implementing the dress requirements of the Training Contract.  The picture shows My new boi in training, dressed appropriately as per the requirements of his Master.

Already he shows great promise, and so a meeting has been arranged for him to come to Me next time.  I do believe that we need to have many common interests, and our conversations showed that we do, and that we think very much alike on things that matter.

Our meeting tonight was everything that I could have hoped it would be, and so I returned home just before midnight, read his blog posting, and then sat down to write this while it was still fresh in My memory.

I was right about York.  Now for the Beyond!

Sunday 12 August 2012

slave 235 Comes into My Life

I have had an interesting two days.  

I cruised a boi on recon whose profile I liked, and suddenly messages were being exchanged, and before long it had developed to text messaging, and then a phone call.  I never move this fast with new potential, but given My niggling misgivings about two recent potentials I threw caution to the winds and suddenly we were talking over the phone.

This slave is 31, comes across as being mature beyond his years, is the right height, physically very attractive to Me, beautifully ginger, and best of all, is someone who (using that horrible phrase) "is sorted".  It is such a change speaking to a slave who knows what he wants and is both intelligent and articulate.  he understands the difference between bdsm sessions and a bdsm lifestyle, which I find a powerful attractant.  

When I communicate with this boi, we communicate.  

I have made arrangements to travel to York tomorrow to see him.  Now I know that I have had many false alarms in these pages, and the usual hopeful mentions are often followed by silence - but this one is different, and is already under training and is doing very well.  

This is an experienced boi who has been searching for a Master for a while, and I am that Master. 

I also saw the pup last night.  I wanted to take him to the-boi's Dungeon Party in Blackpool, but we couldn't find the entrance.  It was in the so-called "Gay Quarter", near Trades Hotel, but proved elusive in spite of walking around the block several times.  It was in Back Lord Street, but both ends of that road had been fenced off, so how one gains entrance is a complete mystery to Me.

So, home we came.  The pup had been wearing a jockstrap under his jeans, and had complained that it was uncomfortable, so I had him remove it in the car on the way home.  he remained trouserless so I could play with the knob on the other gear stick on the long drive back to Fleetwood.  :)  The picture shows him suitably attired.

When we arrived, we had some fun with pegs and he felt the zapper thing - but didn't like the sensation.  Fortunately for him, I am not overly sadistic, so he escaped and was cuddled instead.  As a reward I let him cum a little later.
In this picture, he is playing with some pegs, and of course the problem with pegs is that they sting after they come off, especially when one hasn't paid attention and can't count!



I watched a very compelling Horizon programme on BBC2 on Tuesday called "Eat, Fast and Live Longer", about the beneficial effects of fasting on the body.  I want to lose some more weight as the pounds have been creeping slowly upward since living in Laxey Gander in Liverpool.  It is much easier to eat badly with an excuse than it is to flash up the gas and cook a decent meal. Things have improved a little, as I now have a camping fridge and a microwave, which means I can make better food than just on the gas hob.

In any event, I have decided to follow the Precision Nutrition free weight loss programme, together with Intermittent Fasting.  The idea is to consume about 2,500 calories a day, and then fast (0 calories) on one day during the week. G and I are fasting.  Well, I hadn't quite decided to fast today until he phoned this morning to ask if I had started - this was just after I'd finished My breakfast.  Hmmmm.  So I decided to join him and fast, and if I am allowed to pun, it has gone quite fast!

I have kept busy all day, so I haven't really had time to think about food.  As I am selling the house, I have been doing all those jobs I ought to have done and have wanted to do for ages - I have spent most of today cutting wood and finishing off the screening above the deck and painting walls and fence white, to bring sunlight into the area.  So it has been a productive two days as well, for I cemented an area of My garage (the workshop) roof and I suspect I have found where the leak is, which means I can remove the plastic sheeting and not have that spoil the all-important buyers' view.

I have not eaten anything at all, just had three mugs of Benguela Tea that My mother left here (Rooibos and Green tea mixture) and as one would expect, it tastes wonderful when nothing else passes the lips.


Speaking of living on the boat, here is a shot taken on 24 April, while chatting to someone online. 

Life on the boat is perfect for one, but not good for play.  I invited a boi from Liverpool down once, but it was not that successful because of  the lack of space, as can be seen from the picture,  I tied him up in the fo'c's'le and had some fun with him.  he enjoyed himself, but I was not as satisfied because of the constraints.

The last picture I am going to include from My good weekend is of Me splicing bell ropes for a church in Poulton-Le-Fylde on Saturday.  I was asked to help them out as several of their ropes had given up the ghost, and so I was glad to be able to assist.  This was punctuated with text messages to the new slave.

So, all in all, it has been an interesting two days, as I said when I started this post.  Tomorrow promises to get much more interesting  especially as it is going to start with breaking My fast at G's house - and we're having My home-smoked bacon and eggs!  

And then, off to York and My beautiful new slave.  

Friday 10 August 2012

From BadYoungMaster's blog - a Pertinent Post

I found this post recently, which I thought worth copying and pasting on My own blog, to separate the timewasters from the serious applicants.   It contains much valuable information about finding a Master that suits you.

This was taken from BadYoungMaster's blog, at this address:  http://badyoungmaster.blogspot.co.uk

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Saturday, March 31, 2012


First Contact

Less often than you may think, considering the number of people who have read this blog, and for whatever reason, the spring season, the moon, alignment of stars - you get the idea; I get a little spurt of emails pouring in from slaves wanting to meet me. But their unpreparedness often results in me either quickly losing interest after the first second email or in the odd case not wanting to respond at all.

Here are some tips to use when writing me or any Master/Sir out there to better improve your chances:

Overall

- Be confident. Yes! Even as a slave. It demonstrates that you WANT to meet.
- Be persistent. The email may have gone into junk mail (it has happened).
- Be sincere, honest, and courteous. Use either 'Master' or 'Sir' when writing.
- Use proper grammar and spelling and avoid slang. It shows some level of education.
- Longer emails that show you actually took time to write them will get a better response.

Include a Face Pic

A Master/Sir wants to know who he is meeting. No one is judging you or going to say you're ugly. If he does, he's a moron.

- A clear and recent face pic is a MUST.
- Avoid GQ or other fashion type pics that would make anyone question whether it is actually you.
- Don't write until you have a face pic available. "I'll send it on the weekend" or "I don't have a camera" will only get your email thrown in bin 14.

Inclusion of Body Pics

Optional and secondary to a face pic.
- Take a headless front, side, and back pic in good light.

Inclusion of Play Pics

- Optional and secondary to a face pic.
- Include only those pics that are of you.
- Do NOT include pics of you tying yourself up.

Include Basic Stats

Basic Stats are anything that is not easily discernible from your face and body pics.

- Age
- Height (in feet and inches)
- Weight (in pounds)

Include Your Location

- City
- Country (if outside Canada)

Include Info on Health Issues

- HIV positive or negative
- Current STD's (including fungal infections, crabs, etc.)
- Other problems (i.e. ongoing bleeding, allergies, seizures, medicines, mental health, etc.)

Include Your Experience

Provide a brief summary of activities that you have participated in, your limits, and what areas you'd like growth. Don't write that you are experienced if your only experience has been playing with yourself. In such a case, it is better to write that you have no experience.

Short and Long Term Goals

My blog is titled '24/7/365 BSDM Blog'. So if your goal is only to have a little fun, I'm probably not for you. If you are looking for on-going visits and are not partnered, then I'm up for that.

When Can You Meet

- Specific dates, days, times, etc. that you are available to meet.
- Avoid emailing if you cannot meet within two weeks.
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Tuesday 7 August 2012

archie cums again

I was feeling in a good mood the day before yesterday, and for a lot of reasons, I was not able to meet with My pup.  he is kept in chastity - self-disciplined chastity - and so it meant that he was not able to cum.  So he was instructed to do so, and record it.

he has had to be paddled to remind him not to touch his Master's property in the past, so he knows not to cum without permission.  In this, the second of two such cumming videos, he is showing some stubble where there shouldn't be.

A paddling is possibly in the offing...

Monday 6 August 2012

slave applications

I spend a lot of time looking for a permanent, 24/7 slave.  I enjoyed owning 325, and also 457.  I enjoy the flexibility that owning the puppy gives, but I want another fulltime boi.

I am speaking to a boi (426) who has impressed Me.  he is asking all the right, pertinent, questions and is everything I like in a boi: intelligent, articulate, sensible, employed, means-independent, and of course able to relocate.

The process is still in its early stages, and I am hopeful that this might be the one.

Saturday 7 July 2012

Locked up once more

The sub chris from London is once more under lock and key.

After some discussion, which will culminate in him being unlocked here after spending some time in My cell, a decision was made to surrender control and so I allowed him the pleasure of a last wank before the cb6000s was applied.


As can be seen from the video and the one on the previous posting, he has a tender cockhead when he cums, so I plan to play with that when he's here, so that should be fun.

We are in day four now, and yesterday he reported that at the three day mark he is still sleeping well with no noticeable nocturnal erections, but he is beginning to get noticeably horny, which is good.  he reports that he is now looking at lots of porn, getting and staying hard in the device.  he hopes that I am enjoying having the keys to his cock, and of course, yes I am.










Sunday 13 May 2012

Sunday 29 April 2012

422-232-628 Collared.

For some time now, I have been seeing a boi called archie (not his real name).  We have only had three sessions, but at the one before last, I asked if he was interested in being owned.  To My great delight and pleasure, he was.

Yesterday, I collared him.  he is now slave 628, and his version of My vanilla collar is a thin, unadorned chain to symbolise the stainless steel chain he wears in the House.  Above is a picture of the discreet chain he now wears all the time.

he is a lovely boi.

Saturday 21 April 2012

My Favourite Video

http://www.gayforit.eu/video/24716/twink-slave-fuked

Saturday 10 March 2012

Cumday

Several days after posting the key, the boi enjoyed this.  :)